The Gemara explains the Beraisa cited on yesterday’s daf (32b) which says that meilah – purposefully misusing a consecrated item – is more severe than other sins in one respect. The Gemara offers a few explanations as to why meilah is more severe than all other sins. Mar, son of Rabbana, suggests that one is liable for meilah even when he does the act without intent!
Mar, son of Rabbana, said the following to resolve the difficulty in the baraita: This is what it is saying: No, if you say that one is exempt from an offering with regard to the rest of the mitzvot, where acting without intent is not treated as though one acted with intent, i.e., if one intended to cut something that is detached from the ground on Shabbat, which is not prohibited by Torah law, and mistakenly cut something that is attached to the ground, then he is exempt because he acted without intent; shall you also say the same with regard to misuse of consecrated items, about which the halakha is stringent, such that if one intended to warm himself with non-sacred wool shearings, and owing to an error or lack of information he warmed himself with shearings from a burnt-offering, then he has misused consecrated property? Thus, misuse of consecrated property is more stringent than other commandments, in that one violates it even when acting without intent, and one cannot deduce the halakha in the case of misuse of consecrated property from the halakha in the case of the rest of the mitzvot.
This is a big difference in that one is not liable for any other sin that he does without intent. In contrast, one is liable for meilah even if the misuse does not seem like a big deal like the example given above of someone warming themself with a blanket made of shearings that were consecrated. This does not seem that it would be a big deal in that you do not destroy the item by using it AND it was an accident, however since it’s consecrated it IS a big deal.
My gem? Everyone makes mistakes. In order to live life, we cannot be perfect 100% of the time, nor can we be perfectly focused 100% of the time. However, when it comes to the sacred and the holy – we need to focus and be present in a way that we aren’t always. If we want to elevate something, we need to treat it with as much attention and intention as we can.
I think about a wedding. Most parties and dates (a wedding is somewhat of a combination of both) take a little bit of planning and intention, but not a whole lot and a lot can be figured out on the fly. A wedding, however, takes a lot of planning – who will be there, what will everyone wear, what will the chupah look like, what flowers will we use, what do I want to include in the ceremony, who will officiate, where will my parents sit, what do I need to incorporate into the wedding to reflect my family of origin, my new family, what song will we dance to . . . the list in somewhat endless. And this is to make a moment of kiddushin – making a human relationship holy. Imagine how close we would pay attention to details if the ceremony was between a people and God such as it is with consecrated items.
Yes, we all make mistakes and letting go and moving on is a lesson we all need to live in order to have any relationships. . . Yet, there are moments that ask for more. . . Moments when carelessness is not acceptable.
