In Exodus 23:5 we read, “If you see the donkey of him that hates you collapsed under its burden, you shall forgo passing him by; you shall release it with him.” From this we learn that we can’t stand idly by, not just when our neighbor is suffering, but when our neighbors animal or property is in danger – and not just our neighbor! Our enemy! The daf unpacks a few interesting points, but this is one I love:
If the owner went, and sat, and said to a passerby: Since there is a mitzva incumbent upon you to unload the burden, if it is your wish to unload the burden, unload it, in such a case the passerby is exempt, as it is stated: “You shall release it with him,” with the owner of the animal. If the failure of the owner to participate in unloading the burden was due to the fact he was old or infirm, the passerby is obligated to unload the burden alone.
You can imagine it, can’t you? A person you don’t like saying, “Hey! Go unload my donkey – you’re commanded by God!” What a jerk.
The lesson is a priceless one for us all: you are not obligated to help someone who won’t (not can’t, but won’t) help themselves. That’s on them, not you.

