The daf is discussing when a guarantor should be sought after to pay off a debt. The gem is a very sketchy related story that makes you wonder if some rabbis take advantage of the law, or even think that their kind (meaning other rabbis) are above the law.
Someone named Moshe bar Atzari was a guarantor for the marriage contract of his daughter-in-law, guaranteeing the money promised by his son in the event of death or divorce. His son, named Rav Huna, was a young Torah scholar, and was in financial straits. Abaye said: Is there no one who will go advise Rav Huna that he should divorce his wife, and she will go and collect her marriage contract from Rav Huna’s father, and then Rav Huna should remarry her?
Okay, if the son, Huna, and the daughter in law get divorced, Huna’s dad pays her ketubah. Huna is broke! So, Abaye suggests he should divorce his wife and she can then collect the ketubah price from his dad. They can re-marry and have the money too!
Rava said to Abaye: But didn’t we learn in the mishna that when a husband divorces his wife in such circumstances he must take a vow prohibiting himself from deriving any benefit from her, thereby precluding the possibility of remarriage?
Rava points out – this is against the law . . .
Abaye said to him: Is that to say that everyone who divorces his wife divorces her in a court?
Okay, so now, Abaye is being even sketchier. He suggests a private divorce so he won’t need to promise not to derive benefit from his wife/ex-wife. Then, when he remarries her, he hasn’t broken his vow.
Ultimately, it was revealed that this Rav Huna was a priest.
Just to remind you, priests are not allowed to marry widows or divorcees – even their own ex-wife. So, at the end of the day .Huna could not do what Abaye suggested.
Upon hearing this, Abaye said: This is in accordance with the adage that people say: Poverty follows the poor.
Okay, this is a great (and terrible) adage. We could do some sociology on that. But you may be wondering what the daf wonders – how could a great sage like Abaye suggest such a thing?
The Gemara asks: But did Abaye really say this? Would he really encourage giving such advice? But doesn’t Abaye himself say: Who is a cunning, wicked person? This is one who provides advice to sell property in accordance with the ruling of Rabban Shimon ben Gamliel. Abaye said that giving advice to someone to pursue such action, though it is legally sound, is considered wicked.
So, what is different here? We get a two answers
- The Gemara answers: When dealing with one’s son it is different. It is not considered wickedness to force a father to give money to his own son.
- Moreover, when dealing with a Torah scholar it is different. It is not considered wickedness to procure money for a Torah scholar, because the money enables him to pursue his studies.
I have to say, I don’t know about these answers. Certainly, I hope that Abaye was thinking of #1 more than #2. Getting a dad to do the right thing and support his struggling son is a lot more noble then the rabbis using their knowledge of the law to twist it for their (or other rabbi’s) needs.
It does make you wonder – why didn’t he just ask his dad for some money?