“Thanks guys.” Have you ever need to say thank you and worried that you would forget someone important so instead you didn’t mention anyone by name? On today’s daf there is a question of what happens if one is slaughtering and animal for a mixed group where some of its members are circumsized and some members are not (members being individual men in this case) and you forget to mention one group or the other of the intended party.
We are dealing with a case where one decided in his mind to slaughter the offering for both of them, both circumcised and uncircumcised people, and he verbally expressed his intention with the phrase: For uncircumcised people, but did not have a chance to say: For circumcised people, before the slaughter was already finished as he was saying: For uncircumcised people. And it is with regard to this point that they (the rabbis and Rabbi Meir) disagree: Rabbi Meir, holds that we do not require that one’s mouth and heart be the same; what is legally significant is his verbal expression. Since he said: For uncircumcised people, he has disqualified the offering. And the Rabbis hold that we require that his mouth and heart be the same. Since he wanted to express his intent for both circumcised and uncircumcised people, he has not disqualified the offering.
The Gemara expresses surprise: But does Rabbi Meir hold that we require that his mouth and heart be the same? The Gemara raises a contradiction based on a mishna in tractate Terumot that states: With regard to one who intended to say that the produce he has designated should be teruma, but he mistakenly said the word tithe; or he intended to say tithe but mistakenly said teruma; or he intended to vow: I will not enter this house, but mistakenly said: That house, i.e., he mistakenly referred to a different house; or he intended to vow: I will not derive benefit from this person, but he said: From that person, i.e., he mistakenly referred to someone else; he has not said anything until his mouth and heart are the same. This is an unattributed mishna, and unattributed mishnayot are presumed to be authored by Rabbi Meir.
So, Rabbi Meir thinks that it’s what you say that matters, not what you intend. But his is the minority opinion. It is true that we all make mistakes and that we need room for forgiveness and second chances. (Haven’t we all had a professor in our past who allowed us a re-do?) But we still get the ideal to strive for: that our hearts and our actions align. When they do, we act with integrity.
May your heart and actions align in all of your endeavors (and when they don’t, we have the rabbis to give you a second chance).
