On today’s daf, the great Rabbi Hiyya bar Abba calls Rabbi Zeira תְּרָדָא, which is translated as “imbecile” on the daf. Jastro translates this word as “confused, senseless person, fool, one that lets his spittle run over his beard.” Wow.
This leads to the question: Is it okay for such a great rabbi to call another great rabbi this degrading name?
CHAVOS YA’IR (#152) explains that it was customary that when a Torah teacher noticed his student being lazy in his thinking, he would sometimes call him a derogatory name as a form of rebuke in order to ensure that the student would no longer be lazy in his thinking.
The SEFER L’RE’ACHA KAMOCHA (vol. 3, Kuntrus ha’Bi’urim, ch. 6) adds that it is common that when two good friends are learning together, they use an interchange of words that would not be appropriate for strangers
Another interpreter says that Amoraim were so holy that there must have been pure intention, but we cannot understand it.
Again, wow.
While calling names is not a good form of education, I do think that we need to call out bad behavior some times. If Zeira was being lazy, it might be healthy for Rabbi Hiyya bar Abba to point it out, he expects more. If they’re friends, sometimes a little ribbing is good fun. But you have to be good friends.
Back in Bava Metzia (83b), Rabbi Yehoshua ben Karcha sent a message to Rebbi Eliezer ben Shimon calling him “Chametz ben Yayin” -“yeast (maybe bloated?), the son of wine.” and he was not offended. However, when someone else called him the same thing, he was furious.
The lesson is that, while there may be certain instances where calling names might fly – best not to use any name but the one someone tells you to call them.





