Today we have an incredibly sad image, and a joyful one.
We read about how the blast of a shofar is like the cry of a mother for her slain son: It is a day of yevava to you. And to define a yevava, the Gemara quotes a verse that is written about the mother of Sisera: “Through the window she looked forth and wailed [vateyabev], the mother of Sisera” (Judges 5:28). This is after Sisera is slain by the widow Yael (fabulous story, if you don’t know it, go read Judges 5 – women warriors bible style) . While we have no pity for the wicked Sisera who killed so indiscriminately, a mother is a mother and there is no loss greater than burying a child. – That is the emotion the shofar should bring forth: heartbreak, desperation, longing.
Now to the happy. One of my favorite aspects of the High Holidays is the children’s services. One thing we do to make these services extra special for the kids is give out toy shofars. As soon as they get them, a cacophony of sound ensues (and, the parents say it continues in the car and at home until the shofar magically “disappears”). Here is our Talmudic precedent:
The mishna taught that you let a child blow shofar on the holidays. that you don’t stop them from sounding the shofar: Rather, one occupies himself with them, encouraging and instructing children, until they learn how to sound it properly. Rabbi Elazar said: This applies even when Rosh HaShana occurs on Shabbat. This is also taught in a baraita: One occupies himself with children until they learn to sound the shofar properly, even on Shabbat. And one does not prevent the children from sounding the shofar on Shabbat, and needless to say one does not prevent them on the festival of Rosh HaShana that occurs on a weekday.
Let the raucous cacophony of noise continue to be a tradition! Are they really learning with those plastic shofars? Well, they learn the rhythms and the names of the blasts – and most of all, they learn about the shofar, ancient tradition and joy. And the joy of Judaism is precious and has carried us throughout the millennia.
