Sometimes death comes and takes us in old age, after having lived a full life. Other times, death comes too early, but slowly, giving us time to say goodbye, finish what we can. And still, other times it comes swiftly and out of nowhere and we are left baffled and often furious at the randomness and unfairness of loss.
On today’s daf, we learn about which verses in the Tanakh various rabbis find upsetting:
When Rav Yosef reached this verse, he cried: “But there are those swept away without justice” (Proverbs 13:23). He said: Is there one who goes before his time and dies for no reason?
He is upset about the idea that people are taken with no apparent reason – and he asks, can this even happen?
The Gemara answers: Yes, like this incident of Rav Beivai bar Abaye, who would be frequented by the company of the Angel of Death and would see how people died at the hands of this angel. The Angel of Death said to his agent: Go and bring me, i.e., kill, Miriam the raiser, i.e., braider, of women’s hair. He went, but instead brought him Miriam, the raiser of babies. The Angel of Death said to him: I told you to bring Miriam, the raiser of women’s hair. His agent said to him: If so, return her to life. He said to him: Since you have already brought her, let her be counted toward the number of deceased people.
Here, it was one woman’s time to die (and don’t you wan to know more about these Miriams? Braider of hair and raiser of babies . . . ) and another woman with the same name is taken instead. A mistake was made, but there is no remedy.
Rav Beivai wonders that it was even possible for her to be taken before her time: But as her time to die had not yet arrived, how were you able to kill her? The agent responded that he had the opportunity, as she was holding a shovel in her hand and with it she was lighting and sweeping the oven. She took the fire and set it on her foot; she was scalded and her luck suffered, which gave me the opportunity, and I brought her.
An accident. It just happened. Completely unfair and out of nowhere.
Rav Beivai bar Abaye said to the Angel of Death: Do you have the right to act in this manner, to take someone before his time? The Angel of Death said to him: And is it not written: “But there are those swept away without justice” (Proverbs 13:23)?
Yes. The unfairness of it all, the pain for no apparent reason. . . that, indeed is a reason to cry, a reason to wail.